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Personas are the interactive roles we play in the world. We do this by embodying three FERUS at once:
an Insulating FERA (black border) ,
an Escalating FERA (red border),
managed by a Resonating FERA (white border) that sits between the two.
Staying open to pain, can turn one to self destructive tendencies
or to deep transformative healing for others.
The Healer abides always at the midpoint within the arc of this grand pendulum swing.
This Persona arises in response to the instinct for Intimacy. Until you free yourself of its hold, you will experience yourself in the grip of its cause to be a
Merge Maven
Aching for touch while holding the injured
Self Inquiry for the Healer
My social role as a Healer begins with a restrained and focused desire to be helpful to others. Behaving as Healer allows me to address my inner despair while modeling confidence to others. Failing to integrate both the sanguine and languishing parts of myself, I can end up hampered in dread of what’s to come.
When Depressed, what stories am I telling?
In a moment of reflection, it occurs to me that ….
When Confidence arises, these are its messages…
If acting the role of a Healer is no longer serving my purpose, I may swap out parts of this Persona and assume a new Persona while still addressing integral emotions.
Personas that utilize the spirit of my Reflective Macaque Monkey
“Looking within and confronting the future”
Personas that help me reconcile between my Depressed Shrew and Confident Leopard
“Too small to move mountains, that's dangerous….
To slink with the effortless grace of a climber”
The Healer shares a common aspiration to be Steadfast with the Referee
Together they give access to the Quest of the Grapnel.
